{"product_id":"my-fathers-wake-9780306921452","title":"My Father's Wake","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e“A long meditation on death, dying, and our attitudes to mortality” this memoir by a BAFTA award winning filmmaker is “healing and somehow life-affirming.” —\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe Guardian\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDeath is a whisper for most of us. Instinctively we feel we should dim the lights, pull the curtains, and speak softly. But on a remote island off the coast of Ireland’s County Mayo, death has a louder voice.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEach day, along with reports of incoming Atlantic storms, the local radio runs a daily roll call of the recently departed. The islanders go in great numbers, young and old alike, to be with their dead. They keep vigil with the corpse and the bereaved company through the long hours of the night. They dig the grave with their own hands and carry the coffin on their own shoulders. The islanders cherish the dead—and amid the sorrow, they celebrate life, too.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003ci\u003eMy Father’s Wake\u003c\/i\u003e, acclaimed author and award-winning filmmaker Kevin Toolis unforgettably describes his own father’s wake and explores the wider history and significance of this ancient and eternal Irish ritual. Perhaps we, too, can all find a better way to deal with our mortality — by living and loving as the Irish do.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“Toolis's book is both memoir and anthropology, and serves as a refreshing counterpoint to the industrialized, for-profit death industry we've come to wrongly believe is our only option.” —Caitlin Doughty, author of the \u003ci\u003eNew York Times\u003c\/i\u003e bestsellers \u003ci\u003eSmoke Gets in Your Eyes \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eFrom Here to Eternity\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e“A heartwarming and very personal account\u003ci\u003e.” —Irish Times\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Grand Central Publishing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":67879665631410,"sku":"9780306921452","price":13.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0536\/7418\/0786\/files\/9780306921452.jpg?v=1793714715","url":"https:\/\/shop.hachettebookgroup.com\/products\/my-fathers-wake-9780306921452","provider":"Hachette Book Group","version":"1.0","type":"link"}